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HOW THE F*CK DO I DO THIS?! Decolonizing Your Relationships: a pre-recorded polyamory Q&A with Che Che Luna and Frankie Simone
HELLO + WELCOME!
introductions
disclaimer
community agreements
RESOURCES
polyamory key terms
trauma-informed nervous system care
books + podcasts
people to follow + dating apps
other tools and resources
a non-monogamy playlist!
Q&A
Q1: Did you always know you were polyamorous? (6:47)
Q2: How does one start the polyamory journey? (2:48)
Q3: Communication tips? (14:58)
Q4: How did you have the initial polyamory conversation with your partner? And how did that conversation evolve over time? (6:45)
Q5: How to have hard, vulnerable conversations and bring up new desires with your partner(s)? (8:49)
Q6: How to regulate your nervous system? (9:07)
Q7: How to figure out what type of relationship structure you want? (plus some thoughts on being polysaturated) (3:09)
Q8: What are your thoughts on hierarchy? (6:25)
Q9: How to navigate jealousy? (5:32)
Q10: How to be in solitude and love yourself while your partner is with another partner? (5:21)
Q11: Insights on taking trips and going on special dates with your love(s)? (4:51)
Q12: How to pace yourself through new relationship energy? (7:50)
Q13: What are your dating red flags? (6:03)
Q14: What are your dating green flags? (6:11)
Q15: How to navigate safer sex etiquette within polyamory? (3:20)
Q16: What are some tips and tools for balancing your time and resources with yourself and other partners? (1:44)
Q17: How have your boundaries and needs evolved over time? (10:32)
Q18: What helped you build trust with yourselves and each other? (9:02)
Q19: What does your after-care look like when transitioning back to each other post-date? (5:42)
Q20: Group sex/play tips? (5:35)
Q21: What are your thoughts on metamours? (2:29)
Q22: Any advice for partners where one person is ace and the other is allo? (4:06)
Q23: Any guidance in the push and pull of insecure attachment? (3:59)
Q24: How long did it take to land into safety within polyamory? (4:04)
Q25: How to navigate breakups in polyamory? (3:40)
Q26: What have some of the most beautiful aspects of polyamory been for you both? (7:47)
THANK YOU + LET'S STAY CONNECTED!
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Q19: What does your after-care look like when transitioning back to each other post-date?
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