HOW THE F*CK DO I DO THIS?! Decolonizing Your Relationships: a pre-recorded polyamory Q&A with Che Che Luna and Frankie Simone
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This is for you if you’re 18+ and seeking support in the following areas:
~ how to venture into the world of polyamory as a person with trauma
~ navigating jealousy, shame, grief and big feels as you unlearn compulsory monogamy
~ the desire to explore beyond the relationship escalator
~ how to ride the wave of new relationship energy while maintaining pre-existing relationships and commitments
~ communication tips + tools and how to have hard, vulnerable, pleasure-forward conversations with your loves
~ advocating for your boundaries and co-creating agreements
~ centering compassion, consent and connection in relationships that exist outside of mononormativity
~ representation of queer, brown, trans humans thriving in polyamory!
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This offering includes:
~ frankie and che che discussing 26 community-sourced questions about their polyamory journey
~ tools, tips, practices and journal prompts to support you in your non-monogamy practice
~ a polyamory playlist and resource guide
Course Curriculum
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StartQ1: Did you always know you were polyamorous? (6:47)
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StartQ2: How does one start the polyamory journey? (2:48)
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StartQ3: Communication tips? (14:58)
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StartQ4: How did you have the initial polyamory conversation with your partner? And how did that conversation evolve over time? (6:45)
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StartQ5: How to have hard, vulnerable conversations and bring up new desires with your partner(s)? (8:49)
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StartQ6: How to regulate your nervous system? (9:07)
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StartQ7: How to figure out what type of relationship structure you want? (plus some thoughts on being polysaturated) (3:09)
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StartQ8: What are your thoughts on hierarchy? (6:25)
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StartQ9: How to navigate jealousy? (5:32)
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StartQ10: How to be in solitude and love yourself while your partner is with another partner? (5:21)
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StartQ11: Insights on taking trips and going on special dates with your love(s)? (4:51)
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StartQ12: How to pace yourself through new relationship energy? (7:50)
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StartQ13: What are your dating red flags? (6:03)
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StartQ14: What are your dating green flags? (6:11)
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StartQ15: How to navigate safer sex etiquette within polyamory? (3:20)
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StartQ16: What are some tips and tools for balancing your time and resources with yourself and other partners? (1:44)
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StartQ17: How have your boundaries and needs evolved over time? (10:32)
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StartQ18: What helped you build trust with yourselves and each other? (9:02)
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StartQ19: What does your after-care look like when transitioning back to each other post-date? (5:42)
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StartQ20: Group sex/play tips? (5:35)
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StartQ21: What are your thoughts on metamours? (2:29)
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StartQ22: Any advice for partners where one person is ace and the other is allo? (4:06)
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StartQ23: Any guidance in the push and pull of insecure attachment? (3:59)
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StartQ24: How long did it take to land into safety within polyamory? (4:04)
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StartQ25: How to navigate breakups in polyamory? (3:40)
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StartQ26: What have some of the most beautiful aspects of polyamory been for you both? (7:47)
Community Building:
We need each other! As a practice of interdependence, when you sign up for this course, you will be able to share your experiences, breakthroughs, struggles and questions through writing with other folks who are moving through the content. There will also be the optional invitation to stay connected with fellow non-monogamous babes beyond this course container.
Accessibility:
Closed captioning will be provided.
Open to folx of all races, genders, abilities and sexual orientations.
This course is self-guided on purpose - allowing you to move at the pace of your own body without the stress of time restrictions. You will have access to this content for at least one year.
If you're unable to afford this offering, please email [email protected] to see if there are any scholarship spots still available.
Frequently Asked Questions
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photo of Che Che, Frankie and Reya by A Klass
photo of Che Che and Frankie by Wondra
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